Emotional Adultry??

I know its been forever since ive blogged...but i havent had much to blog about...till now! I am a married woman I know this lol but ive been chatting to a man for a bit now and feel my emotions growing for him stronger and stronger everytime i talk to him (which is quit a bit lol) and now im at a crossroads. Do i stay in a marriage with a man i barely talk to anymore or do i follow my heart and go elsewhere. I know a divorce would KILL my kids they love their father very much, but is it fair to stay and let them see how unhappy i am all the time??? Damn this moral fiber in me. I would never physically cheat on my hubbie but is there such a thing as emotional adultry?? If there is them im totaly in the wrong. I justs have so much more in common with this other man, we make each other laugh about the stupidest things, but whats more is he just "gets" me! I dont even have to finish a sentence but he knows exactly where im comming from.

I have noticed i find myself becomming even more distant with my hubbie, i stay up later i never go to bed till LONG after i know hes asleep, im on the puter chatting with my other guy WHILE hubbie is in the room (im a horrible bitch i know). I just dont even know what to do about all this anymore. Ill sometimes stop what im doing and think about him and then all of a sudden he calls to say he was just thinking about me (coincidence?). I dont want to hurt anyone but is it fair that im hurting in the mean time? Well till i figure out if emotional adultry is grounds for divorce im outta here a bit.